Tuesday, 27 November 2012

Year Recap



So we are finally starting a blog. If you are reading this you likely already know a little about our crazy year but here is a quick recap:

This past January Steven and I sat down with his doctor to discover that what we thought was a hernia was most likely cancer. That same weekend we learned we were expecting our first baby. Steven had an exploratory surgery where they removed his appendix, section of bowel, and took a few biopsies. Two weeks later the pathology results arrived; we were informed he had stage IV appendix cancer.

Unfortunately the doctors in BC didn’t give us much hope but one doctor told us about a surgery that could offer Steven a cure. She just happened to be working at the Port Alberni Hospital where Steven had the surgery. She had completed some of her residency under a surgeon in Calgary who performs an aggressive surgery for appendix and colon cancers. We contacted the surgeon and met with him in June, he said that Steven would be a good candidate for this surgery. We decided that it would be best if we had the surgery after our baby was born in September. 

From April to September Steven also completed eight cycles of aggressive chemotherapy. The treatment was a three week cycle consisting of one day of IV chemo, two weeks of oral pills, then one week off. Steven handled the treatment fairly well with not too many of the bad side effects. However the later treatments were delayed due to low white blood cell counts, this gave Steven an extra week off. We enjoyed these bonus weeks during the summer as Steven was feeling his best at these times.

Preparation for the surgery consisted of many scans and tests (MRI, CT scan, renal scan, PET scan).

That is how we wound up in Calgary. Tomorrow Steven will be getting the “Mother of All Surgeries” (MOAS); I will do my best to keep family and friends up-to-date with this blog. 

Of course, our year also included the birth of James Andrew Cargo on September 16th. Steven is an amazing dad and I am happy he has James to offer extra incentive in his fight against cancer and journey to get better.

Thank you for all of your love, prayers and support.

Lots of Love
Tracy & Steven

9 comments:

  1. You can do this. You have such heart, and such amazing spirit! I hope to be able to meet you guys once you're back in BC - feel free to poke with any questions.

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    1. Apis, thank you very much for your support. It has been very helpful and reassuring to hear about your experience and insight.

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  2. You will both be in our hearts and prayers tomorrow as together you face the MOAS. The blog is a great idea and we will be watching for updates. Big hugs to all of you.
    Cyndy, Career Centre staff and CVIJOBS board

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  3. p.s. i see maggi has hijacked my google acount! it's cyndy!

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  4. Beautiful blog and a great idea. You both are in our thoughts and prayers and we are sending you piles of hugs and buckets of love.
    Aunty Nancy, Uncle Brett, Grandma C, Laura and Heather

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  5. Our prayers are with you and the family Tracy, your mom told me just a little of what was happening, I am thankful to be able to keep updated thru this blog. Keeping all in prayers and watching for updates.

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  6. For everything your having to deal with at such a young age your both amazing, thanks for doing the blog it helps me resist the constant need to text you. Thinking about you all with much love x

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  7. Positive thoughts and warm hugs from SK.
    -Tanya

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  8. Sending our prayers and loving thoughts to Steven, Tracy and James. We all think of you constantly and appreciate the blog! Love Larry

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